Life Happens

I find some of the following “common’ in our society (it’s happening in almost every nation no matter what your culture/religion):

Divorced parents neglect to remind their children (or child) of their continious love for them; they fail to see or treat their marriage problems as a “seperate” issue from the issue of providing love, care and moral guidiance/support to their children.

One or both of the divorced/divorcing parents poison their children (child) into believing the other parent does not love them anymore; this kind of action does nothing for the children (child) of divorcing/divorced parents except emotional and mental harm or trauma, that may later develop into bigger problems for the child/children affected.

Some mothers are not trying hard enough to breastfeed their children; they do not know that even a drop of breast milk can go a long way for the future health of their child/children.

Heck, they do not even see the point of sterilizing milk bottles for newborns thinking water and detergent is sufficient.

As the above listed are “bad common things”, I hope that more in society educate themselves, not only in academic or professional subjects, but also in some “life skills”.

No longer is it (or should it) be a”shame” to read and learn about caring for baby from a a book/guide - such theorotic lessons should go hand in hand with practical hands-on lessons as well.

PREVENTION OF PROBLEM KIDS - IS THERE A WAY?

I’ve heard of parents going “Goooo” and “Gaaaa” with their infants only to have them unteach their children the “Goooo” and the “Gaa” and teach proper English/Mandarin (or whatever their mother tongue may be) at a later stage,

There are also many parents liberally misusing pacifiers (easier to shut up noisy brawling babies), with the result of children’s mis-shapened teeth.

I remember shuddering at the news of how a child of 10 died when an old unused TV fell from the top ofa shaky cupboard. Some in my neighbourhood asked, How is it that smart parents can overlook something as basic as home safety?

How a child “turns out”, is very much dependant on how parent/s care for their child/children.

Parents who are ‘lost in time’ in making their own careers work, is equivalent to increasing the probability of their future teenagers becoming “problem kids”.

Besides being good role models to your children, there should be rules (clearly expressed) within the home where children learn to respect and abide by. Children thrive well in environments where they feel secure through “house rules”.

Children as young as 1 are able to understand simple actions and consequences. A verbal “pact’ can be made with a toddler before a supermarket trip for example.

“If you touch anything, something may drop and hurt you and I will never bring you shopping again. And if you are able to keep your hands to yourself, you will get a star sticker. Every star sticker you paste into your album, you win your favourite strawberry pudding (or toy).”

Tie every good action/behaviour with a reward; and a misdeed/bad behaviour with a disciplinry (non-military please!) action. (Removal of priviledges for teenagers work better; for example, no TV/Internet access for a day!)

Use ‘time-out’ methods for angry or unruly kids under 12. This method allows the child to reflect on his/her own actions. It also allows the child to calm down and realise his/her wrong-doing, and to be sorry for it. (There are loads of articles online for the TIME-OUT method.)

PEOPLE/PARENTS IN NEED OF HELP

Of course, you can turn to welfare organizations for help, but it is not a long-term solution that you (or anyone) can stick with. There is only so much that welfare ministries or governmental bodies can do.

Take small baby steps. Set reasonable deadlines or “clean a room at a time”; you do not need to complete everything in a single day.

Visit a counsellor if needed. A counsellor is not there to solve your problems, although he/she can help you get closer to the possible answers you need…to help you make decisions. Your counsellor is there to give you options you may have overlooked.

Do not rely on your “future better half” to make yourself whole; you cannot be attractive without loving and “upgrading” yourself. You are your own investment through planning, “education” and taking appropriate actions.

And this does not mean you have to get married by a certain age, but making what you have with what ever resources/opportunities you may find, to work for you (and your goals).

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The mind is one of the most facinating and missunderstood subjects today. There is extensive research on the mind, including the powers that are not very well known, yet some people are still able to control.

To find out more on the mind, and the special psychic powers that we posses, a group of people teamed up to fund a research. This research was secret untill recently; the findings are short of astounding.  There is now evidence to prove that we are capable of achieving great things with our psychic powers, things such as:

Influencing people remotely, remote viewing, understing our luck cycle in order to win at gambling, telekinesys, telepathy, and other such powers are not only real, they are available to all.

The main premise is that in order to be able to use these powers, we first need to see them being performed, or have an awareness that they are in fact doable. Then we need to learn the technique to develop these powers, and last but not least we need to train our minds in order to use them.

One of the important things is to achieve a level of deep concentration to reach the higher potential of the mind in order for it to be able to perform these amazing tasks. Imagine being able to know with certainty when your next luck cycle would be, wouldn’t that help you gain some money?

Or being able to see remotely things that would be otherwise imposible for you to see?  Or even being able to influence others to your advantage… All these things and more are available to you right now, the only thing you need to do is learn how to do it.

Luckilly for you, the research has been made public, and for a limited time you can learn these skills to improve your life.

To learn more please visit Real Mind Power Secrets

Nathan Romano

Nathan is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and Mentor

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Rose the flower of love, it has been a proven fact that roses are the unique way to say “I love you” without having to say the words. Roses are God’s most precious flowers revealing a beauty and fragrance, that lifts the hearts of everyone who has come in contact with it in every shape and form.  The special flower even brings out beauty in nature, as nature is beauty in it’s self.  Roses come in the color of almost every variety that you can imagine.These colors that catch every person’s eyes,puts them in the heavenly realm even for some just a slight moment.

Roses can lift up the spirit; and bring happiness to even the lowest natural feelings of Man or Woman.  Some use this wonderful flower to bring good fortune,as well as satisfying an unsettled mind.  Bringing to mind, how many hungry mouths does this flower feed.  Florists strive to bring about the best rose to advertise for their buisnesses.  Gardener’s spend their lifetime developing the colors, shapes, and forms of these magnifying flowers.  Artist paint and perfect, the look of roses, in order to reveal the outstanding beauty that these flowers bring to the heartbroken world.  When revealing this love that this wonderfull flower brings can mend the hearts of the most savage of people.

Roses also delights the ear, many songs have been written about these precious flowers.  It is more than the mind can imagine of how usefull the rose can be.  It has in it’s own plant; a precious oil that is used to make some of the most valuable perfumes on the market.  Books and information, are sold also to get knowledge to grow these extrodinary flowers.  Greeting cards are engraved with these flowers to delight one’s day. Poems are written to express the love and beauty of these flowers.  The species and or types of Roses are many.  If it is a hobby that you are seeking,then please think about Rose Gardening,the beauty and excitement awaits you.

Rose the flower of love, it has been a proven fact that roses are the unique way to say “I love you” without having to say the words.